Remembering a quiet hero

                             By HAL BOCK
                             AP Sports Writer

                             Near the end of his career, at a time when his body often
                             ached from nagging injuries, Joe DiMaggio was asked
                             whether he wasn't occasionally tempted to relax on the field,
                             to coast for a couple of innings.

                             His answer spoke volumes about the kind of player he was.

                             "Never," he said. "Somebody might be out there, watching
                             me for the first time."

                             Joe D. didn't want any fan, new or old, to feel disappointed.

                             The first time I saw DiMaggio in 1947, I was disappointed
                             so I booed him. Not because he didn't live up to
                             expectations. Quite the opposite.

                             He rattled a double off the left field wall at New York's Polo
                             Grounds, helping the Yankees beat my team, the New York
                             Giants, in the annual Mayor's Trophy game.

                             That did not sit well with this 8-year-old, seeing his first
                             major league baseball game.

                             So I booed perhaps the most graceful, classic player of his
                             time. Booed him good.

                             Years later, when I knew better, I felt guilty. Joe D. was not
                             to be booed. He was to be admired, not only for his skills,
                             which were plentiful, but for his style, which was special.

                             For one generation of New York fans, the debate raged
                             over baseball's best center fielder -- Willie, Mickey or the
                             Duke.

                             For the generation before that one, there was no argument.
                             It was Joe D.

                             DiMaggio played baseball with a sense of dignity. He rarely
                             showed emotion. He would never think of standing at home
                             plate, admiring his home runs. That would be showing up the
                             pitcher.

                             He would never preen and prance the way modern players
                             often do. There were no contrived gestures, no punching the
                             air, no pointing to the sky.

                             DiMaggio would simply put his head down and trot around
                             the bases, shake hands as he crossed the plate, and head for
                             the dugout. He was the quintessential professional, dignified
                             and gracious, a quiet hero.

                             He covered center field so effortlessly. He would glide after
                             the ball with long, classic strides, loping across the outfield
                             like a gazelle. Maybe that's why they called him the Yankee
                             Clipper. He was never out of position, never caught
                             napping.

                             None of this was a particularly big deal with him. He played
                             poker-faced baseball, effortlessly and expressionless.

                             The only exception was in the 1947 World Series against
                             the Brooklyn Dodgers, when he hit a ball to the deepest part
                             of left field at Yankee Stadium with two men on base. Al
                             Gionfriddo, a journeyman outfielder who had just entered
                             the game, ran it down and made the catch in front of the
                             bullpen, just as DiMaggio was reaching second base. Joe D.
                             kicked the dirt in disgust. It was a rare peek behind the
                             public facade.

                             Years after his record 56-game hitting streak, DiMaggio
                             revealed the pressure he felt. "I was able to control myself,"
                             he said. "That doesn't mean I wasn't dying inside."

                             He demanded that on Oldtimers' Day at Yankee Stadium,
                             he always be the last to be introduced, as a gesture to his
                             status. In 1968, the year Mickey Mantle retired, the club
                             chose to introduce Mantle last. DiMaggio viewed it as a
                             slight, and it strained his relationship with the front office for
                             years.

                             DiMaggio was a private man, on the field and off. At one
                             Oldtimers' Day at Yankee Stadium, many of his
                             ex-teammates gathered in a lounge near the clubhouse,
                             telling stories to and about one another. DiMaggio sat alone
                             at a corner table, a solitary figure.

                             And yet, his closest friend when he played was pitcher Lefty
                             Gomez, the perpetual life of the party. "I wish I could be like
                             Lefty," he once confided to restaurateur Toots Shor.

                             But he couldn't. It just wasn't in him.

                             If you gained his confidence, he could be a charming
                             storyteller. Once, when I asked him about his 56-game
                             hitting streak, DiMaggio lit up as he told an anecdote,
                             laughing as he recalled the details.

                             The only subject that was off-limits was his short, stormy
                             marriage to Marilyn Monroe.

                             Years after Monroe's death, DiMaggio came to the offices
                             of The Associated Press for an interview. When he arrived,
                             he saw a poster-sized picture of Monroe -- the famous AP
                             photo of her skirts billowing as she stood over a subway
                             grating -- hanging in the hall. Seething, he made an
                             immediate U-turn and left the building.

                             For DiMaggio, privacy was always hard to maintain.

                             In 1996, he was flying from Miami to New York to throw
                             out the first ball at the World Series. Arriving at the gate for
                             his flight, he was ushered across the hall, seated out of the
                             way at an empty gate, where he could remain fairly
                             undisturbed.

                             DiMaggio was recognizable, everywhere he went. Once, I
                             walked one block with him in Manhattan, heading from his
                             hotel to an appearance at Radio City Music Hall. In the
                             streets, he must have been stopped a half-dozen times by
                             vendors, cabbies, pedestrians, all calling to him, "Hey, Joe
                             D., how you doin'?"

                             And that was more than 40 years after he played his last
                             game.

                             DiMaggio responded with a wave and a smile. He enjoyed
                             the acclaim. Nobody deserved it more.
 

                             Hal Bock has covered baseball and other sports for The
                             Associated Press for 35 years.